John 21:21-22 (NKJV) 21 Peter, seeing him, said to Jesus, “But Lord, what about this man?” 22 Jesus said to him, “If I will that he remain till I come, what is that to you? You follow Me.”

So many standers question whether they should just let their spouses walk over them. “Am I just to allow him to lie to me?” “Do I just let her keep cheating on me?” “God how are they getting away with all they are doing to me?!”Hear Jesus say, “What is it to you? You follow me.” No matter your circumstances. No matter the situation. No matter how things appear, you are responsible for YOUR behavior, YOUR attitude, YOUR responses. Imitate Jesus. Follow Him and give up the fight of concerning yourself with what others are doing.

1 Corinthians 13:5 (BBE) 5 Love’s ways are ever fair, it takes no thought for itself; it is not quickly made angry, it takes no account of evil;